What to do when a parent dies

1. Register the death

In England, Wales and Northern Ireland the death is normally registered within 5 days; in Scotland it’s 8. You usually go to the register office for the area where the person died — book an appointment first. The registrar gives you the documents you’ll need for nearly everything that follows.

2. Order death certificates

Ask for several certified copies when you register (they’re cheaper bought at the same time). Many banks, pension providers and insurers insist on seeing an original — a photocopy won’t do — so a handful of copies saves a lot of waiting.

3. Find the will and the executor

Check the home, their solicitor or their bank for a will. It names the executor — often a family member — who is responsible for carrying out their wishes. If there’s no will, the estate is shared under the rules of intestacy.

4. Notify and settle

Use Tell Us Once for government departments, then contact banks, pensions and any utilities. If your parent owned a home or had significant savings, probate is often needed before things can be closed.