Guide
What to do when your brother dies
Whether you were close or had lost touch, a brother’s death brings both grief and a list of things to sort. Here’s where to begin.
The first steps
Register the death within 5 days (8 in Scotland) at a register office, and order several certified copies of the death certificate while you’re there — banks, pensions and insurers each want to see an original. Then begin funeral arrangements, checking first for any prepaid plan or written wishes your brother left.
Your role in sorting things out
If your brother had a spouse, partner or children, they usually take the lead and may be named in his will. You might be the executor, or simply helping. If he had no closer family, you as a sibling may be the one to register the death and deal with the estate.
If you’re unsure whether you’re responsible, the will is the place to look first — it names the executor. With no will, the nearest relatives can apply to administer the estate.
Telling people and organisations
Use the government’s Tell Us Once service to report the death to HMRC, the DWP, the passport office, DVLA and the local council in one step. Then contact banks, pension providers, insurers and any household services directly.
Common questions
- Am I responsible for my brother’s affairs?
- Only if you’re named as executor in his will, or if you’re among his closest relatives and there’s no one nearer to administer the estate. A spouse and children come before siblings.
- What if my brother had debts?
- Debts are paid from his estate, not by you personally. If the estate can’t cover them, the unpaid amount usually can’t be claimed from relatives.
General information to help you find your way — not legal or financial advice. Last reviewed June 2026.